If you mean “Do not keep items that belonged to a deceased person”, here is some detailed information:
Items that belonged to a deceased person (often called belongings, personal effects, or possessions) can have emotional, cultural, religious, and practical significance. There is no single rule that applies to everyone; decisions usually depend on the person’s wishes, family customs, and the condition or importance of the items.
Reasons someone may choose not to keep such items include:
- Emotional reasons: Some belongings may cause grief, sadness, or make it difficult to move forward after a loss.
- Space or practical reasons: Large amounts of clothing, furniture, documents, or household items may not be useful to keep.
- Personal preference: Some people do not feel attached to physical objects and prefer memories without possessions.
- Religious or cultural practices: Certain traditions encourage donating, distributing, or respectfully disposing of belongings after death.
- Health or safety concerns: Items that are damaged, contaminated, or unsafe may need to be discarded.
Before removing items, many families consider:
- Checking whether the deceased person left instructions about their possessions.
- Keeping a few meaningful items while giving away others.
- Donating usable clothing, books, or household goods.
- Sharing special items among relatives or close friends.
- Safely disposing of private documents or sensitive materials.
It is also common for people to feel differently about belongings over time. Some may keep many items for years, while others may prefer to let go of most things soon after the loss. Both approaches can be valid.